Zen and the art of blogging

I'm stuck in the middle with them. A great male friend of mine has been dating a even better female friend of mine for about 2 yrs., well that is now an official time line because they are no longer together. He confessed to thinking he may be bi-sexual! Now I'm all for equal rights and all, and am not condemning him for his realization. But on the flip side why did it take 2 yrs. to figure this out? Especially when he had a beautiful, caring, girl by his side all the while.

I'm getting an ear full from both of course, and both want me to take their side. Well, that's easier said than done. I am just telling them that I will still be friends with both no matter if that's ok with the other or not. It's difficult to deal with though.

The girl involved is a strong and feisty person who has no problem speaking her mind. I love her for that. She is hurt, angry and confused beyond words. I say understandably too. I will say this...well I'll say what George Congreve said in part from his 1697 play 'The Mourning Bride": 'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' .

I told her to listen to this song and she happily thanked me after. These are some of the most beautiful angry lyrics!